When supervision is astray, drug-experimenting teens will play. A new study shows that teens are more likely to experiment with illegal or recreational drugs during the summer months¹.
This analysis confirms several prior studies that underscore the need for continuous remote-supervision of teens when they are not attending school and during scheduled vacations from school. This raises special problem-solving algorithms for parents or guardians who are away from home when their teens are out of school.
The prospect of supervising teens sufficiently to reduce the incidence drug experimentation other than oxidized food and caffeine, raises concerns over raising certain boundaries that can in-turn influence usual and customary psychosocial development among teens. Paradoxically, teen supervision needs to foster autonomous decision making while simultaneously ensuring teen safety.
Other factors also need to be taken into account when attempting to curb teen drug experimentation during the summer months. For example, psychosocial development varies from boys to girls and needs to be factored into the solution.
Additional factors needed to be considered is psychosocial stressors, psychosexual development, gender identity and other sex-specific differences regarding in mind and body.
Teen years can be somewhat treacherous transitions from childhood to adulthood. Social cues and demands can add to teen performance anxiety. For example, certain religions delineate accountability for girls after their 12th birthday and boys after their 13th birthday. Similarly, driving age ranges from 16 to 18, while auto insurance rates vary depending on each teens grades and sex.
Voter pre-registration can begin as early as 16; voter registration usually starts at 17; and teens can vote when they turn 18.
If those aren’t enough, the drinking age in North America varies from 18 to 21.
In between all these established points of expected “maturity” is the ongoing raising and lowering of limits surrounding each teen we love. As guardians, we wish them autonomy, liberty, and freedom on their journey through young adulthood and ultimately to fearless self-sufficiency.
In these moments, we lower the protective/stifling barriers we attempt to build around them, until sometimes we perceive the possibility that our teen is playing on the proverbial train tracks, at which time we re-raise the barriers. We don’t hear about the times our guidance could have averted a situational derailment.
What we do often hear is how their civil rights and liberties had been unnecessarily suppressed and oppressed by their “tyrannical” guardian(s). We lament in silence: Yea, I guess we should have let her attend that party or co-ed sleepover, now she hates us.
It’s a tough time for teens because society and their own consciousness demand certain behavioral standards, by certain ages, in certain people and at certain times. One day a teen is expected to be ready to take an Algebra exam at a specific time and place, while the child within schemes of writing their own parental excuse from school in order to go fishing instead.
Whether to experiment with legal or illegal drugs, or not, becomes one more teen-debate that often ravages teen-minds, and the minds of their guardians. This especially haunts them when they are teen unsupervised.
There are various approaches which can be agreed upon depending on the specific teen and guardian, and their relationship.
How to Approach the Topic of Abstaining from Drugs with your Teen
The most universal unwritten “contract” between guardian and teen is this:
- We trust that you will use good judgement regarding experimenting with drugs.
- We will simply do what law enforcement does, and what employers & law enforcement will continue to do throughout your adult life: conduct supervised random comprehensive urine drug screenings.
- Keep in mind that at your age, the following legal drugs are illegal:
- Cannabinoids (CBD oil often has no age limit but does not bear data suggesting it does not lead to harder drugs)
- And the following illegal drugs are also illegal for you:
- Cannabinoids (in about 10 states)
When supervision is astray, many teens still use good judgement regarding experimentation.
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- Palamar JJ, Rutherford C, Keyes KM. Summer as a Risk Factor for Drug Initiation. JGIM, 2019 DOI: 10.1007/s11606-019-05176-3